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Josoo,

Really sorry too. Keep your spirits up and don't forget we're thinking of you. If you need to talk, we're here for you.

:bighug
 
I am so sorry to hear that, josoo. We are all here for you if you want to talk. I will be thinking of you. You have a positive outlook and you sound like a strong person. (((HUGS)))
 
Thanks for the nice words. No matter what happens, I'll try to maintain an upbeat attitude, because I have a lot of worried friends/relatives and I don't want them to be sad either.

Venting on this forum definitely helps, because the pain inside never really heals, and you never really forget. But you try your best to move on.

I'm in and out of work this week and I'm sure will burst out crying at some stage. I did that a few times today and I don't think I've ever felt so much pain before. It's emotionally draining and my doctor tried to keep me relatively positive.

The positive thinking helps, but you can't fight nature, and you can't fight fate. You can't change destiny no matter what....so from now on I have to take it easy and let fate determine the next steps.
 
Josoo, I feel your pain. If there is anything I can do to make you feel better please let me know and I do mean it sweetie. May God give you the strength to get through this difficult time. My prayers are with you. Take care of yourself.
 
today my period came and I bought a gift for myself to make myself feel better. thinking of what to buy next month when period comes..
getting pregnant is so difficult.. so disappointed.
need a break, need a short holiday..
 
Josoo - am really sorry for your loss. {hugs}

MayC - what a beautiful poem. Thanks for sharing it with us.

Reei - i was really hoping this would be your month. hang in there. :grouphug:

:gl: to all who are still trying. Hubby and I did a lot of jumping this weekend. The dreaded waiting begins....
 
Hi everyone,
I had my first consultation with Dr. Derek Lo yesterday and I am very pleased with how it turned out. He made me and my husband feel both proactive and positive about the whole thing. He had my husband checked (in a different clinic), and I did an internal ultrasound (to check for PCOS). Since I'm in the tail end of my cycle, he can't do the Xray as we cannot rule out pregnancy yet. So, I have to call them once i get my period and we will arrange for follow-up tests. He thinks I have PCOS but will check for the "cysts" after my period as he says they come and go. He wants to do an Xray so that he can rule out "blocked tubes".

All in all, I feel very confident with him. My hubby feels the same. He exudes confidence without feeling like he is imposing.

Thanks Rani for the reco!
 
Oh... he also did not charge for the Ultrasound. I just paid $600 for consultation. With my previous doctor, he would charge for both consultation and ultrasound.

I like his assistant nurse too. Very gentle and accomodating.

Only downside is they only accept CASH or CHEQUE, so will always need to ask ahead how much need to be prepared as I don't have cheques.
 
MickeyMom
Thanks for the update. Glad the appointment went well and you liked Dr Lo. Now we need to send you some babydust and make sure your period stays away this week.

MayC, How are you doing?

Reei, How are you? TTC can be very stressful and we can be so hard on ourselves. A holiday sounds like a good idea.

:grouphug: to all!
 
MayC - I was praying this would be your month. I'm really sorry. :bighug

I don't think i am lucky either. Have PMS cramps. My period is due at the end of the week. :sad:
 
Ok I'm finally back to normal. Bleeding has stopped, signed up for private yoga classes twice a week and eating healthy. We're considering trying again in November, with better luck this time. I am looking forward to a new start. Heading to Japan for a holiday first and considering a few sexy lingerie sets as well! It's hard starting all over...scared of miscarrying again. My MIL called recently and the first thing she said "how could you be so clumsy". I nearly cried and didn't say anything...
 
May C- be positive. I am on month 11 of trying which is why we felt we already needed help. Dr. Lo made me feel much more confident about my chances of getting pregnant again with the help of science and technology. I hope it happens sooner than later, and in the end, if it doesn't, I will still be OK, knowing that this is God's will for me. I am also happy that at least I've been blessed with my son already. But having another one will definitely make me feel more blessed.

Josoo- I feel for you. Please know that is not your fault. People miscarry for a lot of reasons, but most likely not solely because they are being clumsy. People who have not gone through the experience are just too easy to pass judgement. Hang in there. And keep trying!
 
josoo - remember not to tell your mil when u get lucky the next time. not for the first three months.

if you believe in fate, look at your wrist and see how many lines u have. one line for each child. someone told me this. i have two lines and i am hoping this is true..:)

this month, trying not to check my fertility date. but trying very hard to look sexy.. :)
good luck to us all.
 
I agree with reei, best to keep MIL out of the loop for the first few months. Holiday sounds like a fantastic idea with lots of sexy lingerie. Good luck!

Reei I thought the vertical lines by your relationship line indicated children.
Good luck to you sexy!
 
hi girls,

i got my period this morning too. shed a few tears with hubby and felt a lot better. i was expecting it as i had pms cramps earlier this week, but i was kinda of hoping i was wrong. ooh well. will continue :ttc: next week.

hope we get a few:BFP soon.
 
I saw Dr. Lo yesterday to do the Xray/dye for my fallopian tubes. Fortunately I am clear. I still have PCOS and for that he advised a diet with no carbs as well as Metformin pills. I asked to try naturally for at least 3 months (hoping that my ovulation will be regular now), and i will see him again after new year
 
Thanks so much MayC.

I'm going to try taking cough syrup this month and loosen up my CM. Have you tried that yet?
 
what is cm? how does the cough syrup work? i am still not preggos after 6 months of trying. maybe gotta turn to the chinese meds once again...
 
i've just had some bleeding, pink and mainly brownish yesterday. a little bit today and it stopped. i just had my period a week ago and my next period is not due till two weeks later. could this be implantation bleeding? or is there something wrong?
 
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