Persil nonbio is also good. It is not recommended to use fabric softner with newborns because more likely to cause a skin reaction. With our firstborn I think we washed her clothes separately for quite a few months, but with our secondborn just a few weeks, just to check she wasn't getting any skin irritations and while she was very delicate. If you do wash with rest of family and your baby does get irritated skin where in contact with clothing, eliminate fabric softners and use bare minimum of nonbio detergent.