thanks ladies for your useful comments.
bub was born in june last year so he is just over 10 months now. i would love to look after him myself but we got to pay the bills!! daycare centre sounds good to me since i will be working a 9 to 5 job.
i used to live in london (chiswick, to be precise) and planning to mortgage when i get there so might have to stay a bit out of london this time like aldershot, farnborough, kent....?
i was thinking to put him into a local pre-school from next year so he can pick up canto/mando but if we move by the time he goes to P1 then his english might not be upto scratch....? *aargh*