What is it like to have a DH???

[swedishmum]

hi with frenchmum did you mean me swedishmum ???
actually I havent even moved to HK yet. Im moving end of next week.

But I think that I am probably not going to get a DH. Not rightaway anyway. I might get someone for a couple of hours a week instead.

Thanks to all the info I have gotten here I am although open to the fact that I might get one lateron. They seem to be a great help. I just dont know if I could really feel relaxed at home with a DH.

We are planning on having another baby while in HK and if that works out I will probably get a DH then I guess I would appreciate all the help I can get and I wouldnt care if my privacy is somewhat invaded.

I really would like to thank everyone for the info about having DHs and its also very intersting to get the DHs point of view.

 

[carang]

oh, my... we COULD NOT have managed without our helper during my second pregnancy... and that is not an exaggeration.

i was hospitalised 8 times over the 8 month pregnancy and spent the last 4 months of the pregnancy in a wheelchair....

it was FANTASTIC having someone, that my son was close to, able to take care of him while i was unable to do even the simple things. there's no way my husband, even working from home, would have been able to do it himself.