MayC,
I have been reading this thread for some time now, I understand how u must feel. I went thru this whole process for 5 years, running to different drs, doing the cycles and then waiting for the tests etc. I know how expensive it can be but more than that the emotional toll that takes on you is extreme, It also has physical toll on your body. Talking from my experience, it felt like that our lives had come to a full stop, all we did was talk about when to do it, what test more to what the dr said etc everything in our life simply stopped existing. Finally just when i was to give up we had our son and of course u forget all the pain that u have been thru, but honestly speaking i will not go thru that procedure again and put my life on hold. I also feel that my son should have a sibling but at the expense of him i dont think it is worth it. I will miss giving him a lot of things/ miss spending quality time with him/ miss being with my husband.
I salute u for being so courageous but feel( that is a personal opinion) that u might just be happy with the one child u have. My husband wanted 3 kids for ever as all his siblings have 3 kids but when when we didnt even have one, he made his peace with it and now that we have one he is even more thankful for our son .
Best of luck to all u who are trying our best wishes are alwasy with u
Neha