aussiegal
I was in the same situation as you (as i recall from other thread). I had my babies at the Adventist in the end.
Basically, I had borderline pre-eclampsia and needed to go into hospital for 24 hours of monitoring (was 34+4 weeks at this stage). When my Doc rang the Matilda they said I could go in for the monitoring, but wouldn't be allowed to stay if I had to have the babies. The Adventist, were much much nicer about the whole thing, and said that as long as my name was 'in the system already' ie, on the waiting list, then it would be fine if I needed to have the babies there.
I eventually had the girls a week later (at 35+5), and had decided that I didn't want to go to the Matilda, but preferred the attitude of the Adventist. They were all great there and looked after me and the girls really well. Plus, I was told by an independant person who works alot at the Matilda that IF the babies need some aftercare (low level, not ICU, like oxygen etc) that the Adventist were better equipped.
If you can get into the Adventist I wouldn't stress about it. Rooms are bigger, food quite nice (although we did order dial-a-dinner a couple times). Ok so you don't get free toiletries, but really, who cares?
hope it all goes well
K