Asian vs. Western
Hi PreggerC,
You should also think whether you wanna have an Asian or a Western OB. I've had some experiences from both and so far I find that I'm more comfortable with the western one.
I had Dr. Eric Lee at first when I got pregnant, cause a friend recommended. He's nice and no complaints about his professionality. But he had a very asian/chinese view on pregnancy. I had just gotten pregnant and he told me things like, not to wear any high heels, no running and rushing, no excercise etc. Too caucious! Don't get me wrong, I'm half chinese, so I respect his views, but maybe cause I've been raised in a western society couldn't agree with him. Also, I didn't find his nurses/assistants useful in giving info in english, and I don't speak Chinese.
I've been doing my scans and Dr. Macor Wan, he's good at what he's doing. But here we go again with the Asian and Western differences. The scan showed that my baby was a bit ahead of his time, about 1,5 weeks bigger than he should have been. The receptionist told me bluntly when I went to pay my bill, that my baby is FAT and I shouldn't eat any sweet and sugar!!! I was offended!!!
I've been seeing Dr. Lucy Lord now. I like her, she's straight forward, really professional, has lots of experience, not too fuzzy. But if you're looking for one that tells you everything what you wanna hear, and a bit shy of asking questions, Lucy is not the one. Then again, I haven't delivered yet, so can't say how she's gonna be in delivery. I'm planning to use Matilda Hospital. I've heard lots of good things about Matilda and I've spent time there with non-pregnancy related things and been happy with them.
Another thing, at Dr. Lee and Dr. Wan, they're always behind their schedule. I always have to wait from 30min to over an hour. Lucy very seldom does that.
These are only my experiences and views! Hope it helps you in making decision.
D.S