Girl, Essure is permanent!
I remember when I was at my sixth week follow up appointment, my doctor asked me what I wanted to do about birth control. I said tie my tubes, cut em out pull the whole thing, I was done. I NEVER wanted to go through pregnancy/birth/newborn stage EVER again! i was SURE!
But my doc advised me to read up on all the kinds of BC there are and gave me lots of pamphlets to read and made an appointment to follow up with my really final decision. After talking to my husband, we decided to try an IUD: very effetive, but completely reversible, just in case; and if I really wanted to go the permanent route, I coudl decide later when i wasn't completely nuts with PPD and sleep deprivation.
5 years later, i decided one more might be a good idea, to give my son a sibling so he won't be alone when I die, and here I am about to go through it all over again! I'm older and wser (a bit) and althoguh I am failry confident I don't want to do it a third time, I also feel it's not a good idea to decide that kind of thing when you are sleep deprived and caring for a demanding newborn.
What I find abnormal is any woman who WOULDN'T want to be permanently put on ice after several weeks of babyhood. Those feelings do tend to soften once the hardest months have passed.
Just my unsolicited 2 cents.