In Shanghai, there are plenty of local women who want to look after children. Are they rare in HK ? Or is it the English speaking ones who are difficult to find ? I speak little Chinese but in 6 years here with the same ayi (since the birth of my first son), that has never really proven to be a big problem. I wouldn't be able to have a living in helper anyway as I am a teacher and will live on school premises in a flat which at most will have 3 bedrooms.