Im sorry if i sounded sarcastic, i just get frustrated with the 'extra curricular' trend in hong kong. parents are spending soooo much money on sending their kids to classes for things that, when i was a kid, parents just did themselves. when i was little, my mum did cooking with us, art, we went for walks, played games. sometimes *gasp* she did nothing with us and we were expected to entertain ourselves. I was one of 4 kids, and we learned excellent skills like taking turns and waiting, sometimes we fought and then we made up, all important life skills! I have 2 children and i do the same with them, they don't go to any extra curricular classes (apart from ballet once a week for my eldest) and they are happy, sociable and well adjusted. They work hard at school and play hard at home!
Don't you worry that when your children become adults they are going to have a really hard time because there will be no-one to constantly entertain them or tell them what to do next? Perhaps this could be a reason for their short attention span?
I get it that these classes can be fun or educational, but so can you! it seems like parents no longer trust in themselves to be their child's educator.
Sorry for the rant, but you know what they say, better out than in!