I don?t know what the ?correct? quantity of milk is for this age group but I have a few suggestions about getting children to eat more.
When my first child was a toddler and not feeding more than a few mouthfuls in the whole day a friend gave me this excellent advice, ?Make every mouthful count.? It is easy to give non-nutritious food to our children because they like to eat it so much. But a handful of crisps are a meal to a toddler as is a biscuit. If your child fills up on sweets, cakes and biscuits you can be sure that he won?t eat meals.
I've found that thinking 'outside the box' is the best idea when trying to get little ones to eat more solid food. We are brought up to believe that everyone should eat breakfast, lunch and dinner but this doesn't always work for little ones. Even two years olds might find it more manageable to eat six tiny meals a day rather than three bigger ones.
My youngest likes to eat spaghetti with meat sauce. This is not a meal I would normally associate with breakfast however this is when she most often eats it, especially if we are going out in the morning. Most children?s activities break for a snack mid-morning and if my daughter doesn?t have a good breakfast she will eat loads of the biscuits at snack time and refuse lunch. So instead she has spaghetti for breakfast, just one or two biscuits at snack and is ready to eat lunch afterwards.
Another favourite of hers is risotto. We will have this as a family meal once a week. The other children like it, which is good, but the reason I like it is because the leftovers do my daughter for breakfast for the next few days. She seems happy to eat this for every meal and so long as she is happy eating I let her have it.
I also find that things that are cut into small pieces appeal to her. Maybe they are more her size. She likes ham, cheese, apple, raisins, mini rice cakes ? almost anything that can be cut into her size.
Another favourite is eating in the bath. She plays with her special bath toys and at seems that twice as much food is eaten - easy cleaning up too. She also loves her dolls but I must admit that I do get fed up at having to feed all of them before she?ll take a spoonful.
I know that some of you reading this will worry that because I go to these lengths to get my daughter to eat that she will not get normally at the table. This isn?t the case. If we are all sitting down together she is very happy to eat in a normal fashion with us. Likewise she is happy to sit down with all the other children at snack time. My problem comes in interesting her in food when she is the only one eating.
Hope some of these ideas will help encourage your boy to eat more solid food.
Best wishes,
Barb