Hi jacoby, so sorry to hear abt your son's condition persisting. i have received your PMS as well and will try my best answering your questions. my answers are of course based on my OWN experience with my own child and i do find that some 'treatments' work better for some kids. at the end of the day, you are the best judge of what methods improve your son's eczema so keep a daily journal to mark down the days where your son may even have a slight improvement in terms of rash intensity so you can refer back.
for emulsifying ointment, get your brother to go to any Watson's Pharmacy (many branches). ask the salesladies but do NOT trust them when they say it is out of stock cos they tend to shy away from the long english term! ask them to direct you to the aqeous cream / moisturiser section. BTW i ahve great success with emulsifying ointment but many mums also report favourabler esults with aqeous cream. maybe you want to get both to try. the latter is the same as EO except there is some water in it. with EO, use sparingly if you are to apply direct onto skin or you will suffocate skin with result of pimple-like spots. these are very different from eczema spots: excessive EO-use pimple-like spots are like adult red pimples with white/watery centres whereas eczema spots are pin-like red spots (very tiny) with no centres - well, that is my observation anyway.
with my child, her eczema skin manifests either (1) tiny red spots on normal looking skin; (2) red spots on roughened neutral-colour skin; (3) red spots on roughened and raw red-coloured skin; or (4) raw red-coloured roughedn skin with no spot at all. the common link is the skin is dry. she scratches only at night or when she is bored.
no one can pinpt your son's condition except an allergist. I strongly suggest you go see a paed allergist and/or do a skin prick test with a qualified doctor. i woulnd't try naturapath unless you know someone u trust (you are in Philipines as i recall correctly). with skin prick test, you will know what your son is allergic to - esp the ones he is severely allergic to - and at least you as a mum can go from here. i am a bit ocnfused - he still getting BM only or have yous tarted solids? i thot you started rice, brocoli etc? if so, be mindful. there are mums in this forum who have said their kids are allergic to rice! my child herself was allergic to brocolli till 2 years old. she was also allergic to my BM when i was exclusively BFing her - from one month onwards. turned out she was allergic to the eggs and pork i took in my own diet. again i stress this is my experience. like i told Emma before, i made the difficult decision to restrict my diet down to chicken+rice every single meal for 2-3 weeks and cos i saw a marked improvement in my child's skin, i continue for months by adding foods one by one back into my diet. this is how i know my child is allergic to pork and beef and oyster sauve! please please do not try this diet unless you are sososososo desperate and KNOW from mother instinct that something you eat is affecting your son's skin. one of the telltale signs for me is when i ate eggs and during the next BF feed, i found my dauhgter had a flareup - ie her skin suddently became red - abt 30mins to 1 hr after BF. she turns out to be severely reactive to eggs (to pt of analy. shock).
like all mums i don't wish to ever put steriod on my child too but in the end i did cos, yes there is no way better to allerviate the scratching and interrupted sleep (isued to have to bound her arms tight in swaddle nightly). Yes, Jacoby, now that my dauhgter is 2.5 years old, looking back, i DO find there appeared to be a "peakinG eczema" period for her, although doctors never sais this to me!!!!! another mum in this forum also confirmed this to be true for her son's case. my child has eczema since one month old. I find her eczema peaked at abt 7 months coinciding solid introudction and teething (esp her mouth and necK). her skin became even rubbery like eraser feel! this is also the time i switched from using hydrocort/unicort (ie 1% hydrocortisone) to flucinolone to elocon (strongest steriod?). i used it daily once a day at night for perhaps 1 week intervals TILL SKIN IS BACK TO BABY-NORMAL COMPLETELY. yes, the rashes came back 3 days i stopped - then i put steriod again. then i started to reduce usage of steriod at abt 9 months old - but by then i became smarter and knew at least tsome of the foods she was majorly allergic to - and all of a sudden at 22months old, i STOPPED using steriod altogether and now at 30 months, my steriods are sitting idle on the shelf. i was told by many mums that the magic mark seems to be one year old, and at least in my case, i do agree with this.
i so have great success with pepti-junior. if your brother is in hk and wants to buy it, you can get it from Mannings Pharmacy (must go to the ones with Pharmacy Section). but i think PJ and Nutrimigen are of the same type ie extensively hydrolysed formulas so i am not sure whether your son will react better with PJ. 99% of kids allergic to cow's milk tolerate N or PJ; only 1% needs the most specialised neocate. maybe your son is that 1% or maybe you are mistaken that he is allergic to cows milk.
hope i haven't written too long an email. excuse grammatical errors too cos my daughter is sitting in front of me while i type! most willing to share my two cents....
Hey Emma, how are you??? Have been thinking of you lately beleive it or not. i have relocated to s'pore recently - tried calling your mobile but you must be still overseas. how was your trip and did you manage to go to see a specialist? hope your son is doing better.
MB