Rani, I would ask you to "try it" which is what I did at first before comitting the whole family to go there.
I went over with one child and stayed over a weekend (2 nights).
Door to door it takes about 6 hours or so to get there but for kids, its a fun ride and they all love it.
1) Home to airport is always exciting.
2) HKG -> Manila is a very short hop. By the time you level off, you are descending already.
3) Picked up at the airport and then its 2.5-3h car ride to Batangas. The scenary is interesting and you can stop off for some food and refreshments.
4) 1h boat ride across and you get to see some dolphins if you are lucky. Otherwise, the captain is quite relaxed and will regularly let the little ones sit on the chair and pretend to steer the boat.
You are there before you know it. We absolutely love the place and look for any excuse to go there.
It is also very safe and protected for those who worry; there are no peddlers around to annoy you.
What I really like about the place : Its just *different* than all the 5* resorts we have been to before. The grounds are natural, the huts are hand-built from coconut trees, its very rustic and very charming.
HC