hi shannon
i delivered my triplets at QMH and went through their ante-natal checkups as well. because i was high risk, i saw the same dr each time. i have gone through both the private and public health care system in hong kong (had my son at matilda) and can say the care you will receive at QMH is just as attentive and excellent.
we were referred by my normal GP, and yes, the same OB delivered our babies, but it was luck of the draw. then again, i was an emergency caesarean. but another friend of mine who went through the HRU had her regular dr deliver hers as well, so i am pretty sure your chances are very good. all the HRU drs are excellent.
in an emergency caesarean, your husband is not allowed in the operating theatre. in a scheduled caesarean, he is, as well as in a "normal" delivery situation.
after the baby is born, your husband and one guest can visit during regular visiting hours, 12-1pm and 6-8pm. they'll go through all this with you when you tour the hospital.
normal vaginal delivery with no problems, a three day stay, although i know mothers who have checked themselves out the next day. caesareans, recommended five day stays, although again, i know mothers who have gone home early.
hope this helps
tess