Well. I'm pregnant with my second child. I went back to the US for the birth of the first one. I was planning to bite the bullet and give birth in the public hospital here because right now I don't have the option of going back to the States because I would have to take so much time off of work to do that.
I registered at a public hospital, even though, because of the way I believe in going through labor (no interventions including induction, augmentation or breaking of waters, 100% drug-free and natural, with my husband assisting, ability to walk and do whatever I want during labor to help, calming atmosphere to help me stay focused and as a form of pain management, not tethered to a baby monitor or IV etc.) I really am not convinced that any HK hospital would be able to meet my standard.
I've thought it out, talked it out and heard stories from all sides as well as registered with the public hospital and attended the appointments there as well as with a private doctor. I was also hospitalized in a public hospital when I suffered a miscarriage earlier this year so I got a real feel for the gynecology department and yeah, it definitely didn't redeem any of my notions of what the public hospital in HK is all about.
So, here's my problem. Recently, my parents-in-law, when they found out that I was planning to give birth in the public hospital offered to pay for me to give birth in one of the private hospitals in HK. They are certainly not made of money but they also have misgivings about the public hospitals (and they are very local people). So, I was going to take them up on their offer. I'm 16 weeks pregnant and asked my private doctor if he could book me in one of the hospitals he delivers at. However, Adventist and Union Hospital are booked all the way up until May and I'm due at the end of March. I half-jokingly told my husband, "Well, I guess I'll just hold the baby in until then--kind of like you do when you have to go pee and there is no restroom nearby. I guess that's what HK ladies do."
But, seriously, I still would like to give birth in the private hospital. Don't have enough $$ to book a place like Matilda but I guess I'm starting over from square one because I need to find a place that isn't booked solid and also a doctor who is decent (arrrgh...one of the hardest things to do in HK in my opinion), doesn't overcharge and can get me into that hospital.
How can I do this? Any experiences?
I registered at a public hospital, even though, because of the way I believe in going through labor (no interventions including induction, augmentation or breaking of waters, 100% drug-free and natural, with my husband assisting, ability to walk and do whatever I want during labor to help, calming atmosphere to help me stay focused and as a form of pain management, not tethered to a baby monitor or IV etc.) I really am not convinced that any HK hospital would be able to meet my standard.
I've thought it out, talked it out and heard stories from all sides as well as registered with the public hospital and attended the appointments there as well as with a private doctor. I was also hospitalized in a public hospital when I suffered a miscarriage earlier this year so I got a real feel for the gynecology department and yeah, it definitely didn't redeem any of my notions of what the public hospital in HK is all about.
So, here's my problem. Recently, my parents-in-law, when they found out that I was planning to give birth in the public hospital offered to pay for me to give birth in one of the private hospitals in HK. They are certainly not made of money but they also have misgivings about the public hospitals (and they are very local people). So, I was going to take them up on their offer. I'm 16 weeks pregnant and asked my private doctor if he could book me in one of the hospitals he delivers at. However, Adventist and Union Hospital are booked all the way up until May and I'm due at the end of March. I half-jokingly told my husband, "Well, I guess I'll just hold the baby in until then--kind of like you do when you have to go pee and there is no restroom nearby. I guess that's what HK ladies do."
But, seriously, I still would like to give birth in the private hospital. Don't have enough $$ to book a place like Matilda but I guess I'm starting over from square one because I need to find a place that isn't booked solid and also a doctor who is decent (arrrgh...one of the hardest things to do in HK in my opinion), doesn't overcharge and can get me into that hospital.
How can I do this? Any experiences?