HELP. I just want to talk.

[mai1229]

Hi,

I'm a 32-year-old Taiwanese wife with a 2-year-old son living in Hong Kong. I've moved to Hong Kong from U.S. for 2 years due to my husband job. Lately he's been thinking about SEPARATION.......I just need someone to talk to.....please help, I'm depressed.

 

[rani]

Mai,

I am so sorry. St John's Catherdal offfer marriage counselling. Another member highly recommends Sharon Glick of St.John's Counselling Service, Tel:2525 7207

Hope she's able to help you both.

 

[mai1229]

Thank you but I don't think my husband will attend it with me.

 

[pinemarten]

It may be worthwhile for you to see a counsellor on your own anyhow, so they can help you think through your options. Very sorry to read about your situation, I hope you can find some friends on this forum or others who've been through similar times.

 

[HKfornow]

Mai, I've send you a PM.

 

[joannek]

mai, even if your husband won't attend the session, it's always nice to have someone to talk to, maybe once a week, about how you're feeling & what you'll can do.

i was once in counselling & it really helped. some of my girlfriends also go to couple counselling on their own & it also helped their relationship.

 

[hkaussie]

You can also try www.soultalk.org which is a hotline for women in crisis.

 

[mai1229]

I went to see a family doctor today and got some pills to help me cool down and sleep. I'm doing my best to work things out, I hope he is too.
Geeeeeeee~ I love him so much.

 

[mai1229]

...

Because of my husband's work, I don't get too see him everyday. I've never felt so sad and helpless before........

 

[sunniefaith]

As a person with background in counselling, I would strongly encourage you to talk with a counsellor. It's better to talk to someone with a professional than to bottle up everything inside. It is hard at times and don't be afraid to ask for help.

 

[mrs momo]

mai1229, I just private mssge u.