Nicolejoy, I definitely have never thought you were bashing the system (and I know from your threads you've been through a great deal with your daughter) and know the system well, but I do think some of the tone of the other posters are negative, to keep it friendly I won't single out which ones specifically.
In terms of the GBS risk, I think the chances of contracting GBS are 0.075% (no antibiotics) vs 0.0375% unless I have done my calculations wrong. I'm not privy to whether GBS is more of a risk than MRSA/gastroenteritis for the average newborn born in a hospital but if you could show me some links/evidence that fatal MRSA/gastroenteritis contracted from being taken away from one's mother to be sent to the NICU to prevent GBS septicaemia then I'm happy to reappraise. Also if there is no evidence in existence but you still have your gut feeling/mother's intuition then you are still free if you feel you know best to sign your DAMA form, not admit your newborn to the NICU and shoulder the responsibility yourself. Staff at the hospital will not insist upon any course of action if you are happy to free them of any problems that may arise once you take a course of action they don't advise. Simple really.
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I really don't agree that wanting to care for your own baby after birth is excessively demanding on the staff or should require a 'bells and whistles' hospital. If anything, a mother taking over the monitoring, feeding, washing, changing and soothing of her baby decreases, not increases, the nurses workload - leaving them free to focus on the serious cases.
True, a mother caring for her own infant frees up the nurses to do other things and if you have read the posts on geobaby, most public hospitals do better in terms of encouraging mums to look after their own children/breastfeed than some of the private hospitals do when things go according to plan. What we are talking about here is when newborns need to be admitted to NICU. So for a routine birth, no bells and whistles seems to be the way to go if you wish to monitor, feed, wash, change and sooth your own baby.
And the opportunity to bond with your baby in those first few hours and days, let alone the health benefits of frequent feedings of colostrum, certainly should not be a privilege reserved for the wealthy.
I'm not sure where you're trying to go with this comment. I have not for one moment implied that only the wealthy should be able to breastfeed their children right after birth. In fact all babies should be given colostrum but what I am trying to say is that in cases where an infant is flagged as being of high risk or higher risk then in resources strapped system, the hospital has to make hard decisions. It has to pool it's resources for the good of MOST, as opposed to allocating all resources to one woman and her baby. When there aren't enough NICU nurses or equipment, they can't have these staff scattered over the maternity floors i.e. do observations on one ward for like 2 babies, then take the lift/stairs to another floor/ward to do observations for another 2-3 babies, then rushing back to NICU to do observations on the babies actually in NICU. Also special equipment would need to be kept nearby on each and every ward if not every floor as well as the NICU to cater for these mums and babies? Can you see how that would get really inefficient for the nurses? Doctors? Other healthcare staff? Could you see how expensive it would get in terms of equipment/labour costs? Yes, it's convenient and lovely for the mother's to bond with their babies 100% of the time but the QMH isn't resourced to do this for ALL babies. For routine cases yes, but not high risk ones. Also frequent feeding for babies, where will they get the staff to wheel the mum to her baby every 2-3 hours for the breast feed?
Unfortunately, if you are wealthy, and indeed have access to unlimited funds, the truth of the matter is you could room with your baby no matter how high risk they were as you could pay to have the nurses, doctors, equipment to be available to you and your newborn. Go take a look at the private wards of the MAYO of you don't believe this. This does not apply at a place like the public hospitals where they aren't resourced to do this, that's all I'm trying to say. Health economics, hell any economics is difficult because as they say there are UNLIMITED DEMANDS and only limited resources.