But many people are choosing to stick with it longer (which may heighten the chances of actually working something out) just because it's not as financially convenient to get divorced--I guess if your friends actually had the money in order to go through with a divorce then they weren't in that of dire straights to begin with--but anyway, if your friend lost his job then at least he was penniless and single and not penniless with a wife--there's a big difference.