dr chan and miscarriage
i went to quality health center because it was close to work, not because of any specific recommendiations etc. so met dr chan by pure chance.
first i found dr chan very pleasant and knowledgable. the hall was full of diplomas, and certificates. certainly dr chan made sure he was trained properly and recognised in many countries, which i liked. he made a very good first impression. i had all tests and first scan done and everything was good and well, the pregnancy was devloping as it should. then at one vist i discovered that i had twins, and then one minute later that both stopped developing.i had a miscarriage at 10-11 weeks. i was impressed with dr chan's calm approach and gentel way of communicating the bad news. he referred me for another scan to another doctor to double confrim. he did not make it sound like a life tragedy and that this happens in so many cases that there is nothing to worry about. and i did not worry. i took it as one of those life events where there is nothing you can do, no searching for explanations would ever help, and self blame is useless and self destructing.
however, i had a missed pregnancy and i took another 2 weeks to see if anything happened but nothing happended naturally. dr chan recommended to have a full blown procedure in the hospital. and then i freaked out. the suggested cost was almost HKD20,000! can you believe it? the doctor lost all his interest in me the moment i had miscarriage, then it was just the case of extracting as much as possible between himself and the hospital. i could not believe that the distance between medical oath and money making mission is so thin. he did not even mention there were other less distructive ways, and certainly much cheaper, with no side effects. so i went to another doctor who was recommended to me, and much more in tune with my emotional state. i had some two pills, very painful night, and a day of work, but with no surgical intervention and natural healing process. the cost was for the medication was HKD80. i also got some antibiotics and chinese herbs to get better.
overall, today 4 months later, i am in perfect health, we are trying again for a baby, and i will certainly not go to dr chan ever again