Are you an expat re-locating? Quarry Bay isn't that close to any traditional expat areas, perhaps Happy Valley and Mid Levels would be the most convenient. Presumably your husband works for JPMorgan? They were in the newspaper today re relocating to QB.
Consider:
* commute per above - you are looking at over an hour, perhaps an hour and a half if you miss connections. You could always get a taxi from the ferry direct to QB to save time sometimes, it may be a little quicker, particular at non-peak times.
* does your husband travel a lot for work - how much time is he actually going to be in HK. Lots of bankers spend most of their time travelling and it is fairly irrelevant where the office is.
I live in DB and highly recommend it. However, I only have to commute to Central. I know plenty of DBers who commute further than QB, one of my friend's husbands travels to Mongkok, but he is always travelling so the office location is largely irrelevant.