My husband chose the English name and he asked me to arrange for a Chinese name. I asked a fortuneteller and he gave me three choices, and that was about a week after he was born. My husband had two choices and he told me his choices on the taxicab ride to the hospital the night before our son was born. But we didn't tell anyone else before he was born. Fact was, we're telling members of my family that the Chinese name was suggested by my hubby's older brother. They would think that my consulting a fortuneteller was a costly, unnecessary thing, and why didn't I ask them for suggestions...