Depression

Sona

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hi
I have been trying to get pregnant for years now and have tried everything AI / IVF with three different doctors and failed all the time and my husband does not want to adop. I am trying but very hard to accept the reality!
 
Adoption

Why doesn't your husband want to adopt? We tried to have a baby for 7 years and were not successful. We didn't want to go through fertility treatments and adopted a beautiful baby boy 2 1/2 years ago. We love him more than anything in this world and I can't imagine that feeling is any different than if we gave birth to him. I know it is a very difficult matter, but don't give up hope. My prayers are with you.
 
difficult to come to terms with

Hi,
we have also been trying for years with no success, and now my husband says that he does not want to proceed with the next steps and get himself checked or pursue any fertility assitance.
I have been checked out and appear fine so am finding it extremely difficult to comes to terms with his attitude and feel very let down by it. So I think I understand a bit of how you are feeling, it a bit like being on an emotional roller coaster.
 
infertility/depression

Hi there,
Try accupuncture and Chinese Medicine. It works very well and without side-effects. You can always go for more invasive ideas or adoption later...
The person to contact would be Gianna on mobile # 9377 9776. She is a Western lady, but fully registered in Hong Kong ,New Zealand and UK. She is also a western trained Pharmacist! She works in Stuart Bradshaw's clinic in Central and also in the Matilda Hospital. You can give her my name, I don't mind. Hope it helps!! Birgit
 
mander said:
Why doesn't your husband want to adopt? We tried to have a baby for 7 years and were not successful. We didn't want to go through fertility treatments and adopted a beautiful baby boy 2 1/2 years ago. We love him more than anything in this world and I can't imagine that feeling is any different than if we gave birth to him. I know it is a very difficult matter, but don't give up hope. My prayers are with you.

Many thanks for your prayers! I wish you all the best and lots of love to your little angel!
 
come to terms with

Aima said:
Hi,
we have also been trying for years with no success, and now my husband says that he does not want to proceed with the next steps and get himself checked or pursue any fertility assitance.
I have been checked out and appear fine so am finding it extremely difficult to comes to terms with his attitude and feel very let down by it. So I think I understand a bit of how you are feeling, it a bit like being on an emotional roller coaster.

Yes he is totally different person to what i am and at present in life - too much is going on for me and i feel so lost and a person who has no feelings!
 
infertility/depression

Birgit said:
Hi there,
Try accupuncture and Chinese Medicine. It works very well and without side-effects. You can always go for more invasive ideas or adoption later...
The person to contact would be Gianna on mobile # 9377 9776. She is a Western lady, but fully registered in Hong Kong ,New Zealand and UK. She is also a western trained Pharmacist! She works in Stuart Bradshaw's clinic in Central and also in the Matilda Hospital. You can give her my name, I don't mind. Hope it helps!! Birgit

many thanks for you help! i will give it a try.
 
depression/infertility

Sona, forgot to mention. For counselling, you alone or both your husband and you, try Sharon Glick or the others at St.John's counselling service in Central. Sure they can help you with the depression bit at least. Take care!
 
Dear Sona,

Cheer up. We were married for 9 years before we finally got a baby and I have been through the same and understand how you feel.

To share my experience, physical and mental stress is a major hindrance for fertility. I have undergone different methods and everytime high expectation ended up with dissappointment. One day I decided to give up and pamper myself with a long (2 months) and stress-free vacation in Hawaii. You know what, I miraculously got pregnant after the trip without any assistance.

Other friends who have similar expereince have sought Chinese medications to recuperate their body system and it worked for them. But of course, you have to be patient. You may try:

Healthy Chinese Medicine Consultation Centre
Rm 1805 Eastern Commercial Centre
397 Hennessy Road
Tel: 28365211

The Chinese Doctor (Tse) is a strict and demanding person who will insist that you follow her instructions (ie advice on your diet and foods to avoid).

Hang in there !!:bighug
 
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