my second child was born with soft cleft palate, and we found the ONLY doctor who does cleft repair when the baby is 6 month old is Dr. Chan in Taiwan, while the rest of world does repairs at 12-15 month. she had a very succuessful surgery, and has no speech delay at all. if you are interested to know more of my experence, please do not hesitate to write to me. meanwhile, stay strong, my thoughts are with you.