My son is 2.5 now, should I be getting him to learn to use chopsticks now? At what age do children usually use chopsticks. My husband is chinese, but doesn't know a lot about little kid beavhior as he doesn't have many siblings or cousins younger than him and I can;t speak enough cantonese to ask his famuily. My mother in law is already horrified that he is not potty trained.