Carang,
Thanks very much for your prompt reply. I do agree with your opinions. However, if you want to enter the local school system and want your child to learn Chinese, you have no choice but to compete with others for places, otherwise you are left with few opportunites: band 3 (only 3 bands nowadays) schools in a far away district, with poor English and academic results and poor social conduct. One of my student's mother had the whole family move to Kowloon Tong just to stay away from poor conduct schools.
I have been a private tutor since a teenager, and I had been a full time tutor for about 3 years before and after my daughter was born. I had students from DGS. DBS and Maryknoll. Their syllabuses weren't that scary or difficult, not even for the English subject. They're just difficult to enter. I heard from a mother that the Kowloon Tong kindies had quotas for these prestigious schools, so I suspect Canaan has too. I like my daughter to enter a prestigious school, but I stay away from the Kowloon Tong kindies because my daughter is a slower learner compared to other kids, I want her to do when she can instead of pushing. However, the kindie she has entered in the neighbourhood turns out to be a pushy one. Her coming exam is in end October, God! Besides, many kids who got accepted by these prestigious schools may become lazy since they've learned all the stuff for P1-P2 while in kindergarten, and then realise they can't catch up by P3.
I don't expect my child to do double-digit addition at age 5, but somebody told me some prestigious primary schools ask for this in their entrance exams. However, if you want to enter a good school anywhere in the world, you have to compete. WHAT I OBJECT IS PUSHING THE CHILD TOO EARLY, SUFFOCATING HIS/HER STUDIES. HOWEVER, MOTHERS IN HK ARE LEFT WITH NO CHOICE, OTHERWISE THE GOOD SCHOOLS ARE GONE.
I've seen successful and poor students, often the product of too early pushing, which their mothers agree. They are often very smart kids who have lost interest in studying.