I had a planned c-section at The Adventist 1.5 years ago. I was extremely nervous in the beginning because I didn't know what to prepare for. I hate and can't stand pain, not even a paper cut, but the entire experience wasn't as bad as I had imagined.
I got a spinal tab and my hubby was with me in the Operation Room as well. I opted for my husband to be with my daughter, instead of just the nurses when she was brought upstairs for a wash and shots. I got stitched up whilst he was accompanying her, you are too drugged up to know what is REALLY going on afterwards except you feel kind of proud that you survived, because I didn't want her to be alone.
I got to see her right after she came out and then got rolled into my room for a rest. You're so exhausted afterwards, esp. because of the drugs, that you just want a good sleep. I didn't breastfeed her until I woke up a few hours later. I just zonked out after seeing her in my room for an hour.
I would bring a dressing gown, a pair of cosy slippers (as the hospital gown is just pathetically ugly), ginger water (if you decide not to shower for the first two days or so - I didn't last, I had a shower the next day as I felt so gross), your maternity clothes that are comfy and have no tight elastic and the my breastfriend cushion.
You can breast feed afterwards, but it depends on your tolerance levels. I expected the worst and ended up feeling much better about the entire operation, it's really not too painful as you have drugs, but do be proactive about getting out of bed the next day. Your body heals when you are mentally stronger. I forced myself out of bed the next day and wanted to be standing by the time my husband visited. He was MEGA surprised by my strength!
YOU CAN DO IT. Don't be nervous, try to be positive, because the staff at the hospital are great. All your friends/relatives will visit and adore your beautiful baby.
PM me if you have other questions...good luck!