not due till early june - but because there were complications with my first (who's 20mths now) because I had a substitute doctor (my 1st doctor was on holiday and I was 4 days early) i really really need to be 100% sure whowill deliver my 2nd baby...more psychological than anything else really....my birth plan is pretty easy, do whatever is necessary!
my last doctor asked me if I wanted an episiotomy...of course I said NO it freaked me out! who asks you these things when you're in such pain?!? anyhow, long story short, I just needed to be 100% sure this time....
scans are not important like you say, but when you have doctors (like the one at QMH) who tell you there's no guarantee of anything, it kind of made me more nervous and WANT to get a decent scan ....she never even mentioned to me that I could pay extra for the scan, which is really shocking to me now! especially after she said the blood test for downs was also not reliable either - and the only thing would be a decent scan + a some sort of integrated test to be 100% - I did 2 blood tests with 2 doctors and 2 different times and she said the results of my 2 blood tests were conflicting...she should have done something there and then! or at least referred me somewhere - I was on my own!
anyhow, i'm glad i'm not delivering with the dr at QMH anymore - i would have had a c-section to ensure she was the one to deliver, which i don't feel is necessary unless there really is a medical reason for it.
i know i'm lucky...for a couple months i wasn't sure and the dr wasn't very reassuring either which made things worse. i've only really had 3 scans in my whole pregnancy so far and only 3 more weeks to go! perhaps i'm anxious because of what happened last time, but i'm crossing my fingers this time that my doctor (whom does not have holiday till July) will know what my intentions are and NOT ask me for permission during the labour process...
thanks for listening guys! can't talk to mom / hubby about these things cause they get so so agitated and upset!
