IG969 - Now I understand why you hate them! I was told at a private hospital in SZ that my chances of having a downs baby were 60% (despite the 1:135 result I was given), then a doc at BeiDa in SZ refused to give me a new test becuase I was white and the test was formulated for Asians. I was pretty much out of my mind for a few weeks too, until later when I went to HK for a scan and my wonderful doctor told me that probably there is nothing wrong with the baby. That's beyond terrible that you were advised to abort your baby. I found VIP good, but will never step foot in another third world SZ hospital again.
As for the sex, yes, sometimes it's not possible to tell bc of the baby's position, and it might have been easier to see at the next scan.
I won't be giving birth in GZ again, mostly because I'm living in HK now. I'm planning to have my 2nd baby in the public system here. It will be interesting to compare the two.