nicolejoy
Registered User
Hey all,
I'm currently pregnant with my 2nd baby (third pregnancy, I just had a miscarriage about 6 months ago) and had a bad result from the oscar test. Based on that, we want to do an amnio to confirm whether or not there are problems with the baby. However I'm so scared at the possibility of losing another baby. Regardless of what we find, we won't abort - but I do think that it's better to know in advance so you can prepare yourself and all...
I've been researching amnios, and the generally quoted miscarriage rate is about 1 in 200 - however that is meant to be based on studies from 20-30 years ago and today's rate is meant to be more like 1 in 1600 (much more acceptable!!). But the rate is meant to vary from doctor to doctor as well.
I guess my main question is, has anyone had an amnio done with Dr Chan? How did you find him? I'm considering the possibility of going to Dr Lam at the HK prenatal diagnostic clinic instead, just for the test - I went to him for a couple of ultrasounds when I was pregnant with my daughter and while I don't think he's as good for a doctor to see throughout the pregnancy, maybe he's better for amnios??
My first pregnancy was completely problem free, no morning sickness, no problems with the baby, nothing to worry about at all. My 2nd pregnancy, we lost the baby around 6 weeks or so. This one is completely different - even harder. I want to make the "right" decision but there's no black and white. I think that the amnio is the best thing to do but I don't know what to do with that slight possibility that things go wrong.
Any help/advice/etc?
I'm currently pregnant with my 2nd baby (third pregnancy, I just had a miscarriage about 6 months ago) and had a bad result from the oscar test. Based on that, we want to do an amnio to confirm whether or not there are problems with the baby. However I'm so scared at the possibility of losing another baby. Regardless of what we find, we won't abort - but I do think that it's better to know in advance so you can prepare yourself and all...
I've been researching amnios, and the generally quoted miscarriage rate is about 1 in 200 - however that is meant to be based on studies from 20-30 years ago and today's rate is meant to be more like 1 in 1600 (much more acceptable!!). But the rate is meant to vary from doctor to doctor as well.
I guess my main question is, has anyone had an amnio done with Dr Chan? How did you find him? I'm considering the possibility of going to Dr Lam at the HK prenatal diagnostic clinic instead, just for the test - I went to him for a couple of ultrasounds when I was pregnant with my daughter and while I don't think he's as good for a doctor to see throughout the pregnancy, maybe he's better for amnios??
My first pregnancy was completely problem free, no morning sickness, no problems with the baby, nothing to worry about at all. My 2nd pregnancy, we lost the baby around 6 weeks or so. This one is completely different - even harder. I want to make the "right" decision but there's no black and white. I think that the amnio is the best thing to do but I don't know what to do with that slight possibility that things go wrong.
Any help/advice/etc?