1st appointment with OB - questions!

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Hello All,

I'll be 7 weeks pregnant this week (!!) and am going for my very first appointment with an OB (so far I've just done home tests to confirm I'm preggers). I have two questions and would be really grateful to hear people's thoughts:

1. should my partner come with me to the first appointment? Is that what people normally do?
2. can I expect to have a scan this week? I hope so!

Thank you in advance!
 
i think that it depends on if you are going private or public.

public only do the basic scans. around 12 & 20 weeks. however if there are complications, you may have more.

from what i've head some private dr's do scans each and every time...that's why the costs add up so quickly.

as for your hubby going with you. that's up to the two of you.

with my first, my hubby was only able to come to the scans, all the rest of the appts i went by myself.

this time round, hubby has come to every appt and scan.
 
it depends on your ob whether he/she will do a scan. why don't you call & ask? but i think they can only do tummy ultrasound after 12 weeks. before 12 weeks, it's a vagina scan. my hubby didn't come with me for the vagina scan. but he did join me at all the others 12/20/30 weeks.

remember to write down the lists of questions you/partner (i noticed you said partner, so i don't know whether it's hubby or boyfriend) want to ask from now til then. cos you'll be so excited, you'll forget everything you want to ask.
 
one more thing, i don't know whether your ob will do some blood test on your partner. cos mine did. so maybe you can call to make sure.
 
Thanks Carang and Joannek.

I'm going private (Dr Dawkins).

I asked the nurse on the phone whether I'd have a scan and she said it depends and that its up to the doctor.

I will call back to ask about the blood test though.

Great advice re the list of questions - I will definitely do that. I have quite a few!
 
Just saw Dr Dawkins last week for my 1st appt. I wasn't exactly sure how far along I was, so he did a scan, and my hubby and 2 kids were there to see it. Its fun to see if you've never seen one before, might want your partner there for the fun part! Good luck.
 
I also went to Dr Dawkins and I recommend you go with your partner. Dr Dawkins also did a scan to determine exactly how preggers we were (and turns out we were 7 weeks) and we got to hear our babe's heart beat and we got pictures as well.

Congrats!

Maria :crib
 
Thanks Maria and hk2006 - that is very exciting! I'll defintely get him to come along. Its amazing that you can hear a hearbeat so early on. Wow.
 
Hello,

Just found out I'm preggers too. No idea how it all works over here. (See thread 'need advice please)' Is Dr Dawkins good? Where is he/she based? If you have medical insurance can you use any doctor or do different companies recommend different doctors?

All advice gratefully received. Hope your scan goes well Ivan!!
 
Hello,

Everything went very well with Dr Dawkins and my first scan last week. We were able to see the baby which is obviously still very small but definitely there - it was amazing. Dr Dawkins is in Jardine House btw. It might depend on your insurance policy but I was able to pick the OB and just notify the insurers of the choice.

Really liked Dr Dawkins' manner and found him very competent which was reassuring.
 
Hi,

I just tested positive last week. So that means I am 4 weeks pregnant. My doctor (Dr. Choy) is on a vacation, so I met with Dr. Patrick Chan at Matilda. He confirmed via blood test. My question is when do doctors normally take a scan? Since I have had a rough ride till now, I feel I will be given a scan. But just wanted to be prepared for it when I meet her.

There are so many do and don'ts that I am highly confused. In India we believe that a papaya is not good in such times, so am keeping away from it. I guess it hols true for the first timester only. Since I am a celiac, my choice of foods go down drastically plus avoiding all the soft cheeses and what not. My main concern right now is consipation. I go for a walk everydayand do non-strainnous house stuff. Not seem to be working. I know oranges and apples always help me. So started having more of those. But, I am SO CONFUSED! The only meat I have eaten after finding out is chicken. I feel I should give up that for a couple of months.
 
Hi Solong

Chinese OBs in HK usually give you a scan EVERY visit. My hubby and I enjoyed that a lot as we got to see how the bb had developed since last visit. hear his heartbeat and see him moved. It was the most amazing experience!

Regarding food, I totally feel for you. I'm Chinese and there are a lot of rules as to what to / not to eat. I only followed the rules during the first 3 months as that's supposed to be the critical period. Here are a list of the DON'T EATs for Chinese...

NO NOs (basically NO 'cold' foods)
Papaya
Banana
Watermelon
Ice cold drinks
Ice-cream
Raw food
Beef (bad for baby's skin)
Spicy food (also bad for baby's skin)
Lamb
crabs
shrimps / prawns

BTW, my bowels movement were better than before pregnancy. I guess the reason was because I drank at least 2 liter water and had yoghart/milk each day.
 
SoLong,

Am so happy for you. The first scan is normally at 7-8 weeks.

The only foods I avoided for the first 3 months were soft cheeses, raw meat, sushi, and coca cola. I used to love having a glass of diet coke at dinner. For me that was the hardest.

I was conspitated around the 2nd trimester and papaya helped. Perhaps you can try Prune juice or prunes.

Re meats. You don't need to give them up. Just make sure everything is cooked thoroughly.
 
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